Friday, February 29, 2008
♥ house? friends? ♥
It has been a long time i have not meet up my friends for shopping.
Used to meet up with many friends very frequent but recently I seems to lost contact with some of them.
Or have they forgotten me =X ha ha ha. Conversation dun seems to be going on.
Have become to be like Hi Bye friends.
There’s lots of changes in my life for the passed 1 year.
I would say many ppl may think and question and gossip on why I gotten married in a short period of time, got married because of the house ??? If u think is house then house lor. If u know me well u should know my answer.
it does not take a long period of time to know somebody. Marriage and love is all about give and take, acceptance, attention and appreciation.
No matter how ppl look at me, i know the answer very clearly.
A couple may not be together even after many years of courtship, some may have gotten married in a few months. It’s the matter of how well you know your partner and how well your partner knows you! Marriage is not 游戏. It does not mean being with the person for years, and married because of the “YEARS”. Or because dun have any back-up or admirer then marry the existing.
Like ppl always say, never marry a person who u can live you, but a person who u can’t live without. We are human, we can live with anybody. Think logically, we can’t be “acting” throughout our whole life.
Although after married, your closest person is your wife or hubby, but they may not be the most trustful person.
But in real life, all tend to “listen” to their partner and trust them a lot.
Partner is excellent in sweet talk and the other party will be blind by the sweet talk. I have seen “good” example of this. So wat! end up, the one feeling sad, unhappy and hurt is the party who believe in the partner sweet talk. Sweet talk is forever SWEET! But only at the point of talking. Ha ha.
Having a list of relationship, I come to realize many things when it may no be obvious to many.
Many relationship does not means ‘playgal’!!. It’s a matter of meeting the right person at the right time. When u meet a Wrong person at a Right time or meeting a Right person at the Wrong time, HAPPY future will NOT turn out too.
It just seem like I didn’t go thru the “normal procedure” that everyone is going through, which is - courtship for many years>rom>got a house>later customary. But I proceed with another route which is - courtship for a few months> got a house> rom > later customary. Is this abnormal? Is this???
Hey this the meaning of friend from dictionary.
Friend
A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.
One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.
I would say I have a friend who meets the above requirement.
You know who u r. I assure you and you assure me too . Thank You my dear!
P.S : If I have offended anyone out there. I’m sorry!
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
♥ journey ♥
this journey is neither here non there. i can't proceed, i am stopping to look. i wish to proceed but can't. I felt so pek chek when i come to think of that. Why is it like that? Many did been through the stage. but i dun wan. but i can't do anything. I'm so helpless.
Monday, February 25, 2008
♥ 24022008 ♥
It's REAL BDay!
BirthDay or Bad Day?
Thursday, February 21, 2008
♥ "Weight" @ Birth ♥
colleague paste me this link few days back. It's about some Feng Shui thingie.
Its will actually tell about and how is your life like.
Perhaps can give it a try.
For me,
It mentioned that i will face some difficulties during my younger days.
In prime life then will will be better.. (dun know got to wait till when lor... )
♥ Feb Baby ♥
Thank You! DGMSians for celebrating my hatch day.
I'm again 1 year older.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
♥ Try it ! Pick 1. ♥
來抽抽看您的運氣吧
01 11 21 31 41 51 61 71 81 91
02 12 22 32 42 52 62 72 82 92
03 13 23 33 43 53 63 73 83 93
04 14 24 34 44 54 64 74 84 94
05 15 25 35 45 55 65 75 85 95
06 16 26 36 46 56 66 76 86 96
07 17 27 37 47 57 67 77 87 97
08 18 28 38 48 58 68 78 88 98
09 19 29 39 49 59 69 79 89 99
10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100
♥ who am i now? ♥
I’ve no idea wat’s wrong with me.
I’ll suddenly think of the unhappy and scary things that happen before and long before.
Mind has been worrying over the “exam” which will be held in March.
Becoming more and more worried.
Becoming more and more bad temper and more unreasonable.
It’s not my usual self…
I feel so sad.
Friday, February 15, 2008
♥ another Friday ♥
It's Friday! Finally, fallen sick last evening. Flu, fever and headache! Haiz...
Early morning, reach office, saw my flower seems dying. ha ha.
Emily then borrow me a vase.
Here's my flower in vase.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
♥ Happy Valentine's Day! ♥
Got a Bouquet of my fav. Tulips . sender: 老公
Though he is serving his 1st reservist now. but he had planned it long before today!
谢谢你，老公!
NOW! i wan to compare !!!
BEFORE married & AFTER married
BEFORE married
AFTER married
BEFORE married, he sent me my fav flower with my fav color.
AFTER married, he sent me my fav flower with the color he likes.
SPEECHLESS . . . . . .
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
♥ Gone. . . ♥
Wat is gone is gone.
Wat had happen had happen
Wat is done is done
Wat is lost is lost
It will never be the same again.
It will never be the old one
It can never be replaced
It is gone!
Monday, February 11, 2008
♥ Down to ZERO ♥
I bo liao.. then log in to CPF web to check my statement.
Inside got no $$
HDB had just deduct the lump sum from my acc.
i damn broke...
SAD!!!!!!!!!!
♥ Wrap UP Piggy Year ♥
Bye Bye to Piggy!
Here comes RATie
Happy Lunar New Year!
It has been a long long time since I last “officially” blog.
Life has been full of ups and downs.
Since I blog, I have never say alot about myself…
I am a person who will treat ppl good provided ppl also treat me good.
你对我好 我就对你好
你对我不好 那你就不要妄想我会对你好
I am a straight forward person, I dun like means I dun like, I won’t give face de.
We only live once, so! No point acting.
I do not have a good temper. So dun come and ask for trouble.
I hate ppl touching my things without permission.
I hate ppl accusing me
I hate ppl back stab me
I hate evil ppl
I love caring, friendly ppl
I love my friends & Buddies
I love to be happy
Currently I love my work too!
Then 1stly let me talk about work,
I am Extremely bz with my work since nov 07. and it will last till Apr 08.
I would say, it’s my peak period for work. Exam for Anaesthesiology and Diagnostic Radiology are round the corner and Gladys(my AO) is on Maternity Leave..
Leaving me all alone here to swim… I almost sink that day! Being a solo to arrange the venue for Exam Prep Course and making sure my Oversea Lecturer is on his flight to SIN. Arrange for his hotel. All has become a big headache. Check Dr Kersi who fly in from Australia to Gallery Hotel… A boutique hotel… Glade he likes it!
He fly in on a Sunday. I had arranged Limo to fetch him that evening, Guess wat!
At 730pm (the time his flight landed in SIN) the Limo driver called me on my mobile and this is wat he say “ I am waiting at gate 39 for you.”
Wah biang … FAINT x 100 !!!
He suppose to wait for Dr Kersi and NOT ME!
I wonder wat will happen if hp is not a common item in life now…
During the Exam Prep Course, my Student Doctors help me a lot and I thanks them for NOT being nasty to me. Some of them have the sickening look which I feel like slapping them… but overall, most of them are still nice.
It lasted for 2 weeks, and Dr Kersi only teaches in the 2nd Week.(28Jan – 1Feb)
The blur blur me make a big mistake… I told my manager about it and she dun know want to laugh or want to be angry .. hahaha
On 30Jan, I then realize that Gladys and myself.. non of us sent official Invitation letter to Dr Kersi. This letter will state the amt we are paying him and wat he will be covered and not covered. Such as hotel and airticket. I consider myself lucky as he got his own ticket and fly in, not knowing that he will be paid. If I didn’t inform him, he would have thought that it’s a voluntary lecture. He suppose to check out at 1st Feb 7pm (which hotel will again charge me a day charge for late check out). Being real nice, he informed me that he would check out on 1st Feb morning and bring his barang barang to the lecture venue. Meaning I save 1 day charge… hahaha. Adding on to the saving, 1 of the Dr volunteered to send him to the Airport the night. I save a Limo Airport Transfer.
Since he is SO nice… I immediate process his reimbursements. I am also trying to be nice too ! hee hee.. Here ends the Exam Prep course.
I got into the First Meeting for the Final MMed Exam. Got shoot slash and stab by the Chief Examiner… Coming out of the room with a pool of blood. Wat ever he ask me, my answer is not yet… I will check… not confirm yet… date not fixed…!
I think he listen to me also Pek Chek… but cannot blame me lah… I am real lost. And super new, First time solo doing exam with no head no tail and AO goes on Maternity leave. Wah biang.. really can die de..
Heng! I have another examiner very good… she guide me. Tell me got to do wat at a particular point in time… So now, I am bz blogging and also bz doing the necessary.
Hope everything will be smooth smooth de!
Here comes my recent whereabouts.
on 22Dec2008 He proposed. He date me to Jaan Restaurant for a dinner.
A view out from 70th storey It's a kind of drama. He proposed by passing me a bag, inside the bag, there's a present.
Inside this box, there's a Figure.
Holding a ring.
Guess wat! i say i reject ha ah ah... Cos he no ask me marry him. Just pass me the bag and ask me open box then pass him the figure expect me to marry him. ha! I very short temper de, so i scolded him instead. Ma chiam i asked him to marry like that. still ask me to pass him the ring. Kao~ so angry with him. then i headed to the washroom and no HIU him. hee hee...
Throughout the dinner he keep asking me to marry him and I say NO. :p
Here comes the pic of the food. The place is getting dim and I paisay to put the camera with flash so the dishes dun look nice… BUT taste nice lor…
The Candle with the Lian花 and Champagne
here's my Main course (Fish)
ZW's 羊meh meh.
His SOLID wonderful chocolate dessert.
Here's my black forest. with a small ball of ice cream.He got the waitress who serve us coffee to take a pic.
he 假假 come over take pic then kneel down next to me and propose with the ring...
"Will your marry me?"
"ok lor..."
ha ha ha...
We ended our dinner with a cup of coffee.
This dinner cost $300+++ , Ma chiam 吃金
But it's nice.
老公，谢谢你
2007 Christmas Eve, got to WeiWei's house for steamboat. This time, the guys do the preparing, me and Jinghui go shopping at Marina Sq. When it's about dinner time then we reach and to our surprise. On the table are the nicely lay food. WOW!
Xiong and Jessica is always the late ones... next time sure to get them to organise gathering. and we shall all go shopping.
New Year EVE, went shopping with Di and Jiang and Do all the necessary things for my ROM.
ROM on 3rd Jan 2008. Officially become Mrs Chong.
After our solemnization, we went over to NUS Bukit Timah Campus to have a few snap. Because of this place, WE MET!
Here are the photos
Got my House Keys on 28th Jan 2008. Which lead me into the biggest trap of Singapore Biggest Ah Long – The HDB.
On that very day I went to open my “open” my house. Did some pray pray then went back home.
On 2rd Feb, we got all our Barang and go over at 730am early morning to start cleaning… I clean till I backache. Dun know how many countless time I mop and scrub the floor. Think got 20 times. The minute I got a pail of clean water, mop a few tiles rinse the mop… the WHOLE pail of water turn to BLACK. An unimaginable pail of water u can ever expect.
Mop till I sian , and took out hp.. take pic lor.. hahahaha…
This's my Living room. i mop till i wan to die...
At about 10am, ZW’s colleague move the dining table over to our house.
They are proudly sponsor by Greatland Construction Pte Ltd.
A dining set cost 8.8k. An ideal table for Steamboat.
A Closer look at the stool for dining table. I'm so in love it it... It look like those "ANG" used to be in the toilet in my kampong house to store water. Reminds me of the olden days...
Here comes the TV console also from the above sponsor… Indeed we save a bit on all these items...
This's our first (meal) lunchie in our new nest . we decided to call Mac, cos no more energy to go market makan le...
A special creation gift by chef.
Our Starters. (look messy, but this is Artistic)
